Harry and I recently spent time with another couple in this same circle of friends and, separately, came to the conclusion that all is not well in their marriage. That has led to discussions about what God would have us do in this situation. What exactly does love look like here?
It's no surprise to God what chapters I'm reading when circumstances arise. He faithfully uses His Word to direct my thinking and actions. Today's reading only confirmed the Spirit's leading: It is not the right time to talk to our friends about our concern for their relationship. Now is the time for us to be praying to the Lord for each of them and for their marriage.
The first thing I want you do do is pray. Pray every way you know how, for everyone you know. (2:1)
Since prayer is at the bottom of all this, what I want mostly is for men to pray - not shaking angry fists at enemies but raising holy hands to God. (2:8)
God is not asking me to speak eloquently or persuasively to them, or to use my best common sense and relationship advice. He tells me to bring everything to Him first. My Father promises to give wisdom when I ask for it (James 1:5), and He instructs me to lift up my cares and concerns to the One who is Faithful and True (1 Peter 5:7). He is the only One with the power to change hearts and minds, to rescue souls and families, and to use for good what the enemy intends for evil.
So I pray, first. And continue to trust the Spirit to show us if, when, and how to speak to our friends.
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